I find that was a very strange thing that your friend told you. Why can't he be more considerate as well then. Friendship does go both ways, or it did last time I looked!
Yeah well, he is right to some extent. What bugs me is that he didn't tell me in person, sooner, and in kinder words. *sigh*

Well, at least I have livejournal friends who try to make me feel better. Thanks. :-)